remedy

*Filtering- Shift focus, no need to magnify * Polarized thinking- Think in percenetages, not black and white judgment * Overgeneralization-Quanitify- evidence for conclusion? There are no absolutes. * Mind reading- Check it out- Evidence for conclusion * Catastriphizing- Realistic Odds * Personalization-Check it out- Evidence for conclusion - Why risk comparison? * Control fallacy-I make it happen- Each one is responsible * Fallacy of Fairness- Preference vs. fairness * Emotional Reasoning- Feelings can lie * Global Labeling- Be specific * Blaming- I make it happen-Each one is responsible * Shoulds- vs. Coulds, flexible values, not pharasee strick rule keeping, letter vs spirit of the law * Being Right- Active Listening * Heaven’s reward Fallacy, Matry syndrom- The Reward is Now